After a lengthy discussion with a friend who’s actually experiencing this right now, it prompted me to ask myself would I continue my firm stance on leaving if my hubby cheated. I realize people make mistakes and no one is perfect. I even know how to forgive but there’s something about infidelity that I’m quite inflexible on. I am unable to trust you after that so for me the answer is yes, I would leave. I’ve been cheated on 3 times in the past. The first time, I tried to stay but 2 weeks later I couldn’t ignore that I no longer trusted him. I mean it was completely gone. When the other two cheaters came into my life, I broke up with them immediately just like I told them I would. It’s funny… they still reach out to a sister every now and then to this very day (tee-hee). It’s been a long time ago since those events took place, but if my hubby cheated… that would be the end of it. I doubt I’ll ever change my view. But what do you say? I’d also be curious to know what would be your “deal breaker” if cheating isn’t it? Please feel free to share.
THE POLL FOR MEN:
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