People who’ve stopped by the blog in the past already know I have dated outside of my race, to include white men. I know a lot of white men are definitely attracted to black women. I also know that some black women are attracted to white men. And although they are coming together, it’s not nearly at the rate of say, black men and white women. I was curious to see if white men still dig us like I think they do, so I created a fake account with a singles website and posted my ad. Are you sitting down? I received over 85 replies within 17 minutes! Ladies, don’t believe the hype– white men LOVE black women!
Here’s another tidbit… white men who date (and marry) black women have no issues with our natural hair. Let me repeat that… if you don’t have a perm or weave and your hair is natural, white men actually don’t care! That’s more than I can say for some brothers, sadly. I remember this one dude told me that one of the reasons that black men are “abandoning” the black woman was although “we’ve got it all physically, our hair is our downfall”. So sad. But on the other hand, a white man could care less. WTF? And here’s something cool…
Some of them (more than half) sent pics with their replies and you may be shocked to find how many fine ass white guys could be living in your neck of the woods. Single and looking for sistas. They were professional to blue collar, young and old (an 18 year old sent his pic). For some, “they’ve always wanted to meet a black woman”, but for others (lots of others) black women are their preference. I hope you’re not thinking; “who knew?” Well, I did. Within 12 hours my mailbox had filled with a total of 227 messages. Question for the single black women– think it might be time to broaden your horizons, yet? ;) A special question to all the white men who’ve “always wanted to meet a black woman”… what’s stopping you? :)
I don’t know whether it’s been pure ‘luck’ but every white man that I dated was kind, supportive and loving towards me. And please get it out of your minds that all white men have small tally-wackers or are not good in the sack! I’ve also met a few brothers along the way that either couldn’t fit a condom (walking around life with toddler-sized penis) or had no clue in the bedroom. All black men are NOT sexual Mandingos or hung like a horse! (lol) ‘Myths’ are a trip, aren’t they?